We can't choose how we die...
but we can choose how we live.

Maya Angelou's Best Poem Ever

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....

• enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own even if she never wants to or needs to…
• something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour...
• a youth she's content to leave behind....
• a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age....
• a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...
• one friend who always makes her laugh... and one who lets her cry...
• a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family...
• eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel honored...
• a feeling of control over her destiny...

A WOMAN SHOULD KNOW ....

• how to fall in love without losing herself…
• how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without ruining the friendship
• when to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY...
• that she can't change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..
• that her childhood may not have been perfect...but its over...
• what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...
• how to live alone... even if she doesn't like it...
• whom she can trust, whom she can't, and why she shouldn't take it personally...
• where to go... be it to her best friend's kitchen table... or a charming inn in the woods... when her soul needs soothing...
• what she can and can't accomplish in a day... a month...and a year.

"Let us be silent that we may hear the whisper of God."
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

"Be still and know that I am God."
Psalm 46:10

Three keys to more abundant living:
caring about others,
daring for others,
sharing with others.
- William A. Ward

"Forget love...
I'd rather fall in chocolate."

"A friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart."

Happy Valentines Day!

Life is too short...

... to wake up in the morning with regrets.
So love the people who treat you right,
forget about the ones who don't and believe
that everything happens for a reason.
If you get a chance, take it.
If it changes your life, let it.
Nobody said that it 'd be easy,
they just promised it would be worth it.

"There is something you must always remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." ~Pooh